Since becoming a mother I have become more aware of the latest findings and studies. Some of these studies are interesting to me, others obvious and a few that seem a little far fetched. One "study" I constantly hear is the damage television can do to young kids. While my kids don't watch a lot of TV they do watch some and I try my best to limit it as much as possible. (Full confession: they watched a lot of TV after a sibling was born).
One study I have not heard is the impact computers have on our kids. I think it's mostly because it is still new and novel to all of us. Many adults don't want to admit that computers might be bad because we have become so dependent on them. We look up information and stay connected all through a keyboard and a comptuer screen.
Aside from learning how to be a mom I also now have to figure out a balance of technology for my kids. I rarely let them on the computer. However, as a former teacher I know the importance of being able to navigate a mouse. In an effort to minimize computer time in my house I have instituted a few policies for myself.
1. I only check e-mail and facebook when the kids are sleeping (or at least trying to fall asleep).
2. If I need to print something or check something on the computer I try to do it quickly upstairs while they are still downstairs. Or, I try to find alternative ways to find information. i.e. call my sister or dad
3. Do not use my laptop downstairs. (I fail at this one on occasion but I am trying)
By establishing these rules for myself I feel I have communicated to my boys that the computer is not the center of my life (although my husband thinks I am always on facebook). And maybe slowly I will let them see some of the really cool computer games that are available online.
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